Ladies/ Valentines Day

Billy Joel is a master of music! I have just recently become in love with the song "And So It Goes", it is a work of art. but one of the reasons I love this song so much probably because while my grandma was in the hospital about a month ago my uncle played this while we were in the hospital..

This post is going to be about people we love. I thought it would be appropriate seeing as valentines was recently..which by the way this years didn't suck..it wasn't the best but it didn't suck I think it was cause I didn't go to school on account of me being so sick that if I had been hit by a train numerous times I wouldn't have felt a difference. But I did attend school for two class periods however, choir which I got a little cupcake and a nice card, and I also went to my stats class which I had a test in and I was prepared for, so I was determined to take meds or stay awake until after this test! But the whole time during this test I couldn't read the paper without this force coming from the paper through my eye sockets and pushing hard on my brain keeping me from reading the words and comprehending what they were trying to tell me..so the test didn't go as well as hoped for but I did it! Also during this test I had to listen to my teacher flirt hardcore with this personal translator for a deaf boy in my class (what are those people called?) talking about how she fell "hard on her butt" trying to snowboard I'm not going to admit it wasn't entertaining but very distracting to my already falling apart brain. Then in between the poundings in my head and the teacher practically throwing herself at Caleb (thats the signer's name, he will probably be in future stories so just a heads up), my teacher says there is something for me in the office, thinking that its just like my counselor or something dumb like that I go into the office and there sits these pretty flowers and fudge, my loving mommy, brothers and dad had thought of me on this wonderful day, the card said "get well quick!" Aw, you gotta love the supportive family. (My dad thinks I'm going to flunk out of the 11th grade, I just think its cause he wants me to live at the house forever and drive him crazy or just to have someone to go boarding with). but yes, I then proceeded to run back to my classroom to finish my test and get the heck out of that stinkin place! So yes that was my Valentines day, not a bad one I must say(; not like one year, oh my! That's another story another time..

Now that I have rambled, back to the original reason for this post. People I love. Well, recently I lost one of the influential ladies in my life. My Grandma, Janice Bassett, She was probably the coolest grandma you will ever meet in your life. For example, my family is big. So my grandma would throw camps for just the grandchildren which she would name "Camp Grandma". We would do many things like the following: get a dollar from grandma and get anything we want, from the dollar store which through a kids eye is a major score! We would all sleep at grandma's house girls with girls and guys with guys. She would give us these games that she wanted us to do and they were wild..like gymnastic type games. See if you could like bend your body all out of proportion, and ever since that Camp Grandma those papers have been on her wall cause when something goes on grandma's wall it then meant something and wouldn't get taken down. It was nice to know that what you did was worth the trouble, cause you knew grandma would appreciate it no matter what. She was always down to play a game, the lady definitely knew how to party.

To Be Continued..

No sun.

So I'm sitting here listening to music and I thought it would be a good day to write someone brought up my blog a couple days ago and I thought it would be a good idea to write..so here we go. I haven't been very happy these past few months..I just kinda feel like I should be doing something or I feel like I shouldn't be doing anything. I have always had these "passions" that I love and lately I feel like they mean nothing to me anymore..like I shouldn't be doing it. Then I think to myself what the heck am I thinking? (you guys ever feel like that?). Well when this happens I usually just think to my self that I need to just snap out of it and get back on track, watch an inspirational movie or listen to something that would give me some sort of purpose. I have been trying to get my life back on track lately and I think the best place to start is the home. I haven't been the best daughter/sister, but I try my hardest. I think to myself sometimes that what would be different if I didn't have these parents/sisters/brothers/friends etc. I know that it would be different. but would it be a different life I would be living or would I still have some of the same things? I guess you will never know. I had this dream last night that my friend cut off my hair. It was a nightmare. I was seriously freakin out when I woke up. Dreams and me haven't been getting along to well lately either.

I love days when there is no sun for days..and you just curl up on your couch watch your christmas tree twinkle with hot chocolate. I think there are some things to live for and I know that is one of them.

Experiences.

You know that feeling where what you just experienced you will remember forever and/or it will have/play a big part in your life? Well I have had such an experience ladies and gentlemen. I have more purpose to my life. I know that what I do makes a difference but I still want to live just long enough to make a difference in just that one person's life. That could keep them from making a decision so small as to either a ham or turkey sandwich or something as big as not committing suicide that day. I want to know about it. I want my life to mean something not just to me but to other people. I want to stop being so nagging to everyone. I want to be happy. And I am going to be. I choose to be happy. My crazy choir teacher always gives us students crap because we never have any expressions cause we are all high school students and don't give a poop about anything/anyone but ourselves. We are all very selfish. But anyway she gives us crap about that and she asks us how we go throughout our day like that? How do we live like that she asks us. And to tell you the truth I have no idea. People are so "chill" sometimes that they don't understand that their definition of being "chill" has turned out to be them actually not caring..AT ALL. They go through life and think that what they contribute or don't contribute is "good enough". Well its not. If everyone had that mentality the world would suck to live in. There would be no fun and everyone would be high off of some kind of retarded drug. I'm glad for bubbly happy people (most of the time). I am glad for the movie Stranger Than Fiction. Will Farrell does a great job in that movie. I am grateful for Bavarian sugar cookies.

Be the best!

So back for some more therapy. I love my little sister. She has this massive brain that has some amazing ideas, like just now she asked me who came up with stick people. Who comes up with stuff like that? She has been the most brilliant child of my parents yet. For example my mother bought her of 374 page book and she finished it in less then 8 hours. Now is that not brilliance ladies and gentlemen? My sister the master reader, and the funniest girl when we get going...Another that I love/hate is that we laugh the exact same. When we watch movies together we laugh so loud and in sync that it sounds like one person is laughing. Its quite humorous but at times I hate it. Cause I am not a very happy person at times. But aren't we all? I was watching/listening to, my favorite movie, Mr Magorium's Wonder Emporium this weekend and I found out another reason why I love it so much. Cause Mr Magorium is so funny. He says the most random comments. But in the end he was the smartest of them all and knew all that was going to happen. I think that we all can think of someone who we look up to. If its you mom, dad, grandma, that person who helps someone in need, or just the guy who picks up trash that lying on the floor. Well you know that feeling you feel when you find out they aren't the person you thought they were? The horrible feeling of being let down. Thinking that person will always be there for you, no matter what the consequence for them or you. And then later realizing that they aren't at all you super hero? Well, you could be that person to someone else. Think about it..So be the best person you can no matter what! Cause someone is always watching you, So be the best you can be. Make sure that you are living just long enough to change some one's life. I heard this quote once that said "To the world you may be one person but to one person you may be the world." That was a wise person. A wise person indeed.

I'm Back...ish.

Well Ladies and Gentlemen I have been very very much a slacker lately. I have not written in..a while. And here is my theories from now on. I did this blog mainly cause it was therapeutic to write and get out all that I was feeling and to the lucky few that I actually told about it they would read and understand where I'm coming from a little bit more then any other Tom, Dick and Harry. So since I haven't been writing lately is because I don't need to much therapy so I am deciding right now that you are my therapy blog. I still want to call you just long enough, cause it is a sick name, but also because I still have the same ideals about life in general I still want to live just long enough to make difference. Just now I won't write about it everyday..unless I have a major crisis and I totally thinking about making this anonymous. In fact I think I might..but yeah anyway, I have took the stupid plunge and am going to homecoming with Richard. A boy that I have known FOREVER! and has also liked me FOREVER, so I figured I would go with him, he is a sweetheart, and it is going to be alot of fun especially since we are going with a fun group! So that is the most recent/big news. My dress is blue and flowy. (I made sure it was flowy so that I don't look too fat. Great right?) But you know that feeling that you are going to make someone else jealous? Haha well I feel that way..only sometimes though, I think I genuinely want to go, but it is going to be a lot of fun to look hott in front of a certain someone. You know you all have done it, wanted to make someone jealous, even if it has been...4 weeks. But I really am ok now when I think about him I don't get that stupid feeling in the pit of my stomach. I use to get that all the time anytime I would even think about it. and It freakin sucks. Now though, it doesn't matter cause I am OVER IT! A wise women once told me to put the word "next" on my mirror the day Nicklas broke up with me I put it right up there, and it has defiantly given me strength. Well keep it up people. Stay strong. Heck stay alive, and you'll be doing great. Till next time.

Good Girls.

It rained all day today. It was marvelous. Today was a great day. It rained the perfect amount and lunch was good today, I went this a boy named Andrew and he makes me laugh..but then again most things do. Its good I think. Life is better when you laugh I think. I love people who are funny. They make my days. People who laugh are worth getting to know. (Unless they are dumb and make it a phoney laugh, cause those people suck.) But anyway I got to go to church tonight and I really like being able to just sit there and talk with the girls. They really are wonderful. Ok I am pooped. I am sorry. Tomorrow's will be better. Till Tomorrow.

This is a confusing post. If you understand...Contact me.

Well hello, Today I was thinking of a good thing to blog about and I am going to talk about it today, So you know how on people's facebook/myspace/twitter etc. on their "about me" sections they list about themselves (Obviously). And you can pick out what kind of a person they are by that one section. (Pretty much there are always exceptions though). I think that people who describe themselves as "different" or..an "individual", that it is bull. Everyone has friends...and usually your friends are like yourself. That is why you are friends with them. I have noticed that people who are different are the quiet ones..who no one knows cause they don't talk. That is why they are different, but still there are a lot of "quiet people" so there are still a group of those! The catch is..even though they say they are "Different" "Special" "An Individual" they all have something in common the fact that we cling onto things/people/places etc. whether it be their mother, their best friend, their cat, or just seeing a that one person each day. We all need to be loved. Its a human need not want, need. So that is why we are all the same..deep down, some are deeper then others. But still we all want love. And seriously? Who wouldn't its the best! The individuality part comes right underneath the surface of a person. What they like, what they dislike, their favorite of things, stuff like that. Also the way we express what is right underneath the surface is our differences. And we cling onto to the people that share those interests. I feel a little bit confused...ha! If you can understand this post then I think we need to meet. Cause you need to help me sort out my life, there are just too many things for me to think about! and I need to sort out my priorities. But I hope you do understand what I am trying to say. Till tomorrow.